I’m changing the name of these postings. My wife suggested it and it occurred to me it would be a great name for a blog about life and adventure. After all, aren’t we all in God’s waiting room?
|Retirement Village or City of the Dead|
|Launching? Dreams, good byes, hopes or just having fun?|
I’ve read of cultures that write the names of loved ones lost the previous year on them. Or perhaps you just want to send your prayers, cares and wishes to the universe on the beginning of the new year , this might be a good start. It sounds very solemn, peaceful and almost religious.
This extended family was just having fun, cousins talking to aunts and uncles, mothers and dads, sis and brother, all laughing and getting splashed by waves as they tried to launch each one. I’m sure they were creating memories and drawing closer to each other. Hmmm, maybe it was religious after all.
|First Sunset of 2015. What lies ahead?|
The first sunset of the 2015 was underwhelming. I had hoped for some insight to how the year would unfold, but Dame Fortune revealed nothing to me. Maybe that is the message. The year 2015 isn’t written and we each have chances to take and fortunes to dare!
Back at the retirement village, I’ve seen too many people to claim I’m staying in the city of the dead. Still, it’s eerie to sit at the entrance to the floor and at 5 pm never see anyone. The darkness closes in on you and all you can hear is the bubbling of the fountain below on the third floor. Occasionally the automatic doors whoosh open, but you never hear footsteps. Maybe the sensors see things mortals don’t. It’s peaceful and a little spooky.
The residents pass me in the hall or notice me at the coffee/bagel breakfast bar and give me a curious look. I’m too young they think (maybe, I could have made a fortune and hired a doctor to keep me young) to be a resident but they’re not sure. Maybe I’m visiting and then again, well, who knows. I’m sure they are thinking that youth is wasted on the young.
There’s a small pond outside and I enjoy feeding the birds. There are common ducks (a few), and several orange faced Common Moorhens. I’m sure , if it could, that bird would not choose to call itself that if anyone have consulted with it.
|The flock arrives for feeding!|
The pond is also home to several large soft-shell turtles. These guys must be the SEALs of the turtle world. All you see are two eyes and a nose above the water. They approach the target under water, pause to check six, and gulp! the prize just disappears without a ripple. Mission successful, one fed turtle.
Last night was movie night. That’s not an experience to miss. The movie was “Father of the Bride” with Spencer Tracy. It was interesting to see how Hollywood saw or at least portrayed the upper middle class family in 1950.
Question? Does anyone still wear a suit when eating dinner at home anymore? Do you ladies still wear pearls to eat with the family?
It was also interesting to experience the movie with the old folks. One woman thought the movie was too loud and when it was made softer, she wanted closed captions. Everyone wants a different volume and didn’t hesitate to speak out, preventing anyone from hearing anything. The collective wisdom of the audience decided that while a room temperature of 74 degrees was too cold, they could tough it out. Several wondered where the popcorn was.
Me? I had a beer. I needed a second one.
Thinking about a Christmas or Birthday present for a retired parent or favorite aunt? Let me suggest silk long underwear, electrically heated slippers and a megaphone.
They would be useful for movie night.